Modern Selling: The New Rules of Getting Noticed

Five ways to build visibility with customers who would rather Google it than call you.

Key Highlights

  • AI tools, Google, and peer reviews now give prospects everything they need to decide before a salesperson ever gets a call, making old-school selling tactics obsolete from the start.
  • The shift is from pitching to teaching: salespeople who pick a niche, share insights consistently, and answer questions before being asked earn invitations into accounts instead of fighting their way in.
  • Staying memorable matters more than staying visible — sending useful, non-promotional content during the long silent stretches between proposal and decision keeps a salesperson top of mind without becoming a pest.

This article originally appeared in the July 2026 issue of Security Business magazine. Don’t forget to mention Security Business magazine on LinkedIn or our other social handles if you share it.

Your prospect might say they are too busy to chat, but the real message is that they don't think they need you.

Today's customers have more information than ever. They can ask AI tools for recommendations, search Google, watch product demos on their phones, review peer experiences, and compare vendors – all before they respond to a salesperson.

So how do you become seen by customers who don't want a sales conversation? Here are five ideas to help today's sales professionals get more visibility with their customers:

1. Accept that being seen is a different game today.

For centuries, salespeople succeeded by being physically in front of their customers. Not so today. Don't get me wrong: salespeople who meet in-person with their customers have a significant advantage over those who don't; however, getting stuck on this outdated concept and forcing your customers to see you will backfire.

After creating a brand as a subject matter expert, you must carry through with this level of professionalism in your meetings. Discovery meetings must be at a different level.

2. Stop selling and start teaching.

The modern salesperson's job is to become part of the buyer's research, not interrupt it. The first step is choosing a marketplace and becoming known as a subject matter expert. Marketplace examples are vertical markets, specific security problems, unique technology, etc. The more focused you are, the easier it is for your market to understand why they should pay attention.

In years past, salespeople pushed their way into accounts. Today, the best ones earn an invitation by teaching and demonstrating their expertise.

3. Build expertise around the marketplace.

Invest your time in your target marketplace. Teach consistently: Share insights and lessons learned on LinkedIn. Record short videos explaining common mistakes or best practices. Speak at industry events, associations, and customer meetings. Create guides, checklists, and case studies that help buyers make better decisions. Change your outbound work from trying to schedule appointments to sharing intelligence that will make your accounts better.

This work builds your reputation as someone who helps customers solve business problems, which is what gets you invited to meetings.

4. Become the resource customers remember.

This approach builds something more valuable than instant results: credibility, if you back up your brand as an SME with real substance in every meeting that follows.

After creating a brand as a subject matter expert, you must carry through with this level of professionalism in your meetings. Discovery meetings must be at a different level. When you're done, the customer should always feel like they've learned something and would pay for your time.

Since you won't be seen as frequently as in prior years, you must be the one they remember.

5. Be seen when you're not there.

In today's buying environment, there is a ton of time between stages and communication with accounts. Even if you're the preferred company and salesperson, a customer might ghost you for months between submitting a proposal and the decision. How can you stay top of mind without being a pest?

Provide educational, interesting, and non-promotional information. This could be a relevant article from a different industry that you drop off one day without asking for any time, or a quick video that illustrates how to get the most out of the technology that your customer already owns. Anything that is helpful and takes none of their time will help you be seen even when you're not there!

About the Author

Chris Peterson

Chris Peterson

Chris Peterson is the founder and president of Vector Firm, a sales consulting and training company built specifically for the security industry. Use “Security Business” as a coupon code to receive a 10% lifetime discount at the Vector Firm Academy. www.vectorfirmacademy.com  •  (321) 439-3025

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